I do not want to be called birth mom. I am way more than that. I am his mother whether you believe it/admit it or not. You will never break the bond I have with my kid no matter how hard you try so stop trying! You have made me feel horrible. You could make this a lot easier but make it harder. I wish you would get over your jealousy. Please consider others feelings. Stop trying to keep me a
Secret. I am tired of feeling like we are playing house. Some of the decisions you make, the child may not like or agree with so you should consider that. I hope that you can understand where biological mothers come from and change open adoption for the better. Mother’s Day birthdays and Christmas are the hardest. Send a gift. Send updates. Send pictures. That is the least you could do. We give you the greatest gift anyone will ever give you to get treated horrible in return. We love our kids just as much if not more and want a great relationship with the kid, which most kids want too. Please consider doing something nice for the biological Mom.
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